kink

I love being naked. I love being naked with someone I find hot. I have a thing for hair and odd body details. I love PDA. Mirrors. Public sex. Impact play. Switching. Chiffon (Don’t ask). I’m actively trying to discover new kinds of pleasure and I’m glad to exist in a time when it’s okay, even encouraged, to experiment.

A kink is an atypical sexual preference (where “atypical” is a subjective cultural definition). All kinks should be okay and acceptable as long as they’re done with a consenting adult, but in reality, prevalent culture sorts them into popular and weird. Ancient Greeks were cool with pedophilia and Victorian men commonly had a leg fetish. In our time, BDSM is the poster child for kinky sex, even though it’s more dangerous than, say, ABDL.

More often than not, we learn new kinks from our sexual experiences. Some are taught to us, some we stumble upon, and some—fetishes especially—happen because humans can make lasting sexual associations with just about anything.